The 3 Responsibilities of Every Headteacher

When I became a Head, the weight of responsibility often weighed heavy on my shoulders. More often than not, this was due to the fact that any responsibility towards the meeting of my own needs, I unconsciously placed second.
Not realising that doing so only added to the pressures that I felt.  It was only after many a dark night of the soul and more than a few tears, that I came to realise that true, authentic success was very much going to be dependent on the degree to which I took responsibility for how I engaged with the pressures of the role and the commitments/promises that I was prepared to make to myself.
Every School Leader that I have had the privilege to work with has travelled a similar path. As I have journeyed with them, I have come to see that much like myself, in my early days of Headship, their path towards success has deepened when they have learned to accept three key responsibilities about the role.
Many of these responsibilities were in fact commitments; promises that they made to themselves to help ensure that they stayed true to their own leadership path and were not unduly swayed by the inevitable challenges that so often arise.
Here’s what these 3 key commitments were…

1. Commitment to their own Self-Care

This first commitment should come as no surprise, to those who are familiar with many a blog that I have written. We cannot ignore our own emotional, mental and vocational needs. These are the wells from which our passion springs. If they are allowed to run dry then we have very little, if anything to give. Those around us will not feel nourished by our presence or inspired by our words.
A commitment to our own self-care ensures that we take the meeting of our own needs seriously and do not see it as a selfish act, but rather good stewardship of the gifts that we have been given, so that we can be of greater service to others.

2. Commitment to living their values

In his book, “The Courage to Teach”, Parker Palmer says:

 “Movements that transform us, our relations, and our world emerge from the lives of people who decide to care for their authentic self-hood.”

I believe that in this, he is saying teachers, leaders those who are in a position to make a real difference, transform and become agents for real change, when they connect deeply with their values and become the living embodiment of them. This is no easy task, but it is a necessary one.
It is a necessary one because when School Leaders commit to living by their values, they also commit to role modelling for others what true ethical behaviour looks like. They also commit to facing any opposition that some may have towards their values and developing the courage and faith to stand up for them…no matter what.

3. Commitment to asking the bigger questions

When Heads have reached certain point in their careers, many, if they are supported correctly, begin to ask questions that have less to do with ‘doing’ in the role and more to do with ‘being’ There is a deep desire to take a more measured approach to the demands of the role.
This desire is often accompanied by the realisation that this measured approach can be assisted, if they commit to asking what I term the bigger questions. The bigger questions are those that are concerned with how leaders influence the quality of their leadership through the relationship that they have with themselves.
At times, these bigger questions, can often be very troubling, because they;
1. Are unfamiliar (OFSTED, Governors, your School Improvement Advisor will not be asking you these types of questions!)
2. Cause leaders to think at a deeper level
3. May invite an exploration of the shadow or hidden aspects of a person’s leadership style.
Yet, when answers are honestly searched for and eventually found, they pave the way towards individuals becoming larger/more expansive and authentic versions of themselves. Hence, why they are called ‘The bigger questions.’


Without a doubt the pandemic brought many unexpected challenges for us all. However, one of the silver linings of the past two years has been a heightened awareness of what matters most for all of us. We learnt:

– The value of community

– The need to stay connected

– The importance of being supported

We also learnt that deeper connections matter, none of us can survive alone and to thrive and overcome the challenges of leadership life we need real, deep, and meaningful connections with others.

That’s why we have launched our new “Heads Together”, a new School Leadership community, designed to connect like-minded school-leaders and to provide a watering hole for inspiration, encouragement and support.

Our “Heads Together” Community is designed to provide School Leaders with:

– A vital network of support to help individuals manage the emotional strains and stresses of the role

– Collaborative forums for thoughtful exploration around timely and important leadership themes

– Inspiration and encouragement throughout the year to help keep leaders’ passion and purpose alive

If you’d like to find out more about the community, and how it could help support you in your role, simply follow the link below…

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